aunt

..Ive got this aunt that needs the mother of the year award. First of all she has 9 kids she thinks its kool to have her 10yr 11yr old get tattoos,and roll her blunts up..now that there 12 and 13 shes wants to commit suicide because there are out of control ..they cuss her out, theyve dropped out of school ..they smoke an drink there robbing people they run her house she has had to leave her house because they robbed a dope man an hes now threatening to shoot the house up.I feel she brought all of this on her self. They broke into a building an was arrested.,but she ran to get them out ..smh. please Steve give her some advice. Confused an broken ..

He had a Vascetomy, Im Pregnant

Good Morning to you guys, I listen to you all everyday, And I thought that I had found the perfect guy. when we started seeing each other we both made it clear we didnt want any other children, as we both are parents already, he had an ugly divorce with his ex, which he in turns says is the reason behind having his vascetomy,he has 2 beautiful kids. and I have one,Now my problem is I went to the the Dr just out of the blue no reason regular check up. My Dr then comes and tells me Im pregnant, No I am not is my response, you need to do it again, which they did, and it came back positive yet agin. ok so i didnt tell him until the next day and of course he lost it, i dont want it, i told you this when are you taking care of it is basically his response. Now this guy has not been totally honest with me throughout our relationship so i dont believe his Vascetomy story because there is just no possible way there is anyone else. I feeel as if he is just trying to force me to terminate, he says that he will not even entertain having a child. at this point i really just want to make the best decision for me, i can honestly say that he has really showing me his true colors through this hard time, but instead he says that things can go back to normal once we take care of this. Problem is how can I help him raise his kids when he wants me to terminate my baby. I thought this man loved me, thats what he said, but one thing I am sure of things will never be the same for me.Please do I need to just terminate and end this or do I keep it and lose him either way its not a good issue for me

19 years old with 14 kids

Morning crew i am the 19 year old male who has 14 kids and my Mom wrote you guys a few weeks back and i would like to explain how this all took place, growing up i did not have a father and mom always told me and still tells me about how mean arent nothing so growing up around that i always felt like i wasnt nothing but crap to women so i treated them like they werent nothing. but heres the thing my mom is the blame for 90 % of this all the things that are important she left out. such as how she buys my condoms and puts holes in them thats how 10 of the kids where made my mom goes in my room finds my condoms and puts holes in them on purpose. Morning crew i love my kids and i know im only 19 but i think i am doing good i dont get too see 5 of my kids and thats because they live out of state but i do try and call and check on them and for the record all girls know about the other girls and there kids . i work at a plant called and i make 1,000 dollars or so a week i am not on child support simply because i do try and help the best way i can i do manage to talk and stop by the girls homes to visit when im off i mean of course i cant go to 14 girls houses but i think effort is everything , i did graduate and i am currently taking online classes for collage , morning crew showing favortism is the lst thing on my mind i needs some advice on how to not be abscent from my kids life as they get older and how to not to stray to the streets to get money to make sure they are okay please help i really dont want to stray to the streets but looks like thats my next option

Weed-Women Relationship

Wish you could do more for black women. This morning on your PS announcement you said those who smoke the wee are stupid. Most black women (really beautiful) grew up thinking that there is nothing wrong with it because their mothers had guy who smoked it and in their presence. So most of their boyfriends are wee smokers and there is nothing wrong with it. Do you know what; I think black women should go on strike – NO TO ALL MEN WHO SMOKE WEE – even social wee smokers. The men will stop smoking the wee and there will be less divorce and restrain orders. I know you’re one man crusader for better relationships. Please can you have a segment purely devoted for black women? If black women have standards or set of values to live by the black race is on their way to more greatness. I’m not saying Africans don’t smoke wee but their women don’t accept me who do. So they go to any extent to hide it from women. I’m really proud of what you’re doing and may God bless you and your family.

READ AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK

I was married to my now ex-husband for almost 10 years. In 2007 we seperated and the divorce was finalized in 2010.During the seperation i learned that he moved in and was living with my mother. He said he was only there until he could get back on his feet. That lasted about 8 months. I asked my mother why and how she could allow it knowing his character and she gave me the typical christian answer "What would Jesus do?" Finally he moved out and took my younger brother with him. Again i looked at my mother and soon realized whats the point. About 6-8 months later i was at her house only to find out HES BACK!!! Me and my daughter have since relocated almost 6 months ago and he is still there. My mom has finally seen the light and wants him gone after almost 2 years. He hasnt offered her a dime and not to mention he is almost 4 months behind on child support. How do I help my mother tell him to take his black a** to your own mommas house?

Frustrated And Need Revenge

My frustration is really with myself and I need some advice from the best. I recently ended a dramatic relationship with a 30 year old and I am 37. This man in the beginning was the greatest and worshiped the ground I walked on until months into the relationship. He claimed to work in sales and living with his brother. He claimed to have lived a traumatic childhood with a drug mother and a obsessed father. He claimed to adore and was a care taker of his grandparents. He claimed his mother was found dead a couple of months ago. He claimed to be the most loyal man on earth. This man turned out to be the biggest pathological liar I have ever met. He is worse than my exhusband which now he makes him looks like a saint. He claimed his father is a big corporate giant. Anyway Walter is scumb of the earth. He lives with his father , has been unemployed for years, has nothing in his name including his cell phone, has a felony record, uses religion to his advantage and uses a baby mamma (child not his)to get sympathy pleasure from women. He was like a disease that I could not get rid of. He was slowly trying to move in my house and claiming illnesses that he did not have. His mother I found out is alive. His grandparents speak nothing but shame about him. I am a bit frustrated because he is on every dating website with the same story line of a good loyal man. I dont want to make this mistake ever again so what would have been the clues that I was dealing with a pschopath? In addition to licking his lips constantly and nose bleeds I suspect drug abuse but could never prove it. My only worry is that women will fall for him and will give there all due to being natural care takers. What advice is there for myself and women when dealing with deceptive men?

Should I Tell My Friend Before It Gets Serious

A few years ago, I started seeing a guy. This relationship was casual and not very serious,therefore,no o many peop knew about the relationship between the two of us. Recently, a very close friend of mine started seeing the same guy. They are in the beginning stages of dating, or whatever they are doing. I do not know if they plan to establish a relationship or not, but a part of me feel the need to tell her that the guy and I have had dealings. Another part of me wants to keep quiet and not cause any interference between the pair. I have never been emotionally attached to the guy, and still speak to him when I see him. My thing is, I do not want to have to keep a secrect like this from my friend if she and he decide to establish something. Please give advice on how to approach this situation delicately. Sincerely Yours, MissJustWannaBeAGoodFriend